A Beautiful Sign: Amy Rose Perry
“…The most meaningful moments are the ones that unfold in unexpected ways, touching our hearts in ways we could never have imagined.”
The inspiring stories of my Stronger Than Stone brides have a way of finding me, and Amy’s was no exception. When I saw the captivating image of her on her wedding day, adorned in a gown with magnificent butterflies, it moved me just as it had countless others. Her journey was so powerful and uplifting that I felt compelled to reach out. I’m thrilled that she agreed to join StoneWear’s Stronger Than Stone brides and share her heartfelt story of love, loss, and healing.
Amy holds vivid memories of her father, despite losing him to cancer when she was only seven. She recalls the joy and happiness he brought into her life, as well as his incredible strength. Many of these memories are kept alive thanks to her mother, who captured countless videos and photos of him, sharing them with Amy and her sister throughout their lives. Though her father was initially given just three months to live, he fought for three more years, creating cherished moments of love and joy that Amy has carried with her ever since.
“Losing my dad was incredibly challenging. I faced moments of deep sadness, especially on milestones that he should have been a part of. My mom has been my rock during this time; she embodies resilience and strength. She often shares stories about my dad, helping me keep his memory alive. Her unwavering support has taught me to cherish every moment and find joy even in the smallest things. She reminds me that grief is a part of love, and it’s okay to feel both sadness and joy simultaneously.”
One of the most challenging milestones for Amy was her wedding day, knowing her father wouldn’t be there to walk her down the aisle to her beloved husband. In a heartfelt tribute, she chose to honor him by releasing butterflies—a symbol of his presence—after saying her vows. What she didn’t anticipate was how this small gesture would turn into such a beautiful and unforgettable moment.
“A year after my father passed, I was on a hike with my sister and my mom. At exactly noon, the time in which he had passed, a monarch butterfly landed on each of us. Ever since that day, monarchs have appeared on my father’s birthday, Father’s Day, and other special occasions. I could not think of something more fitting than being surrounded by a symbol of his presence on my wedding day.”
As 50 monarch butterflies were gently released from a small container, they didn’t immediately take flight. Instead, something truly magnificent unfolded. The butterflies lingered, delicately landing on Amy’s gown. It was a breathtaking display that seemed almost otherworldly, filling the air with a sense of peace and connection that words couldn’t capture.
“It took me a moment to process that they only landed on us three. It was unanticipated as I thought they would all fly away. It was a reminder that sometimes, the most meaningful moments are the ones that unfold in unexpected ways, touching our hearts in ways we could never have imagined.”
Half of the monarchs gracefully landed on Amy’s gown, her bouquet, her sister’s bouquet, and one even rested on her husband’s corsage. It was a profoundly moving moment, one that will forever be etched in their memories and hearts. This beautiful experience serves as a reminder to everyone who has lost a loved one: they are never truly far from us.
“My outlook on the future is filled with hope and resilience. While I still navigate the waves of grief, I’ve learned to appreciate life’s beauty more deeply. My past has taught me to value connection, love, and the moments that make life special. I feel empowered to honor my dad’s memory by living fully and embracing new experiences. I hope to inspire others to find meaning in their losses and celebrate the love that remains. If there’s one thing I’d like to share, it’s that grief and joy can coexist, and honoring our loved ones in meaningful ways can bring healing. My wedding gown is a beautiful blend of my father’s memory and my own personal style. It’s made from delicate lace, symbolizing the intricate connections in my life, particularly with my family.”
Creating Amy’s wedding gown in stone was an incredible honor. The delicate butterflies were intricately added to the gown and hand-painted to capture the profound moment they represented. Thank you, Amy, for sharing your heartfelt journey of love, loss, and healing.